Confused

[b14me]

Alright guys and gals I have a question.
Lets say a guy has 5 reviews on eccie and over a dozen oks on P411, would this be enough to see someone.
The reason I ask, is this just happened to me.
She wanted "local" references. I could have given plenty of references.
Well I don't give out references to anyone.
Your thoughts.

[Phrasing]

I agree. If they don't have p411, then that won't work for verification. If you give her eccie providers as references...that aren't local, then it's her loss?

[b14me]

She has P411. I even sent her a pm to prove I was on there. Go figure.

[john_deere]

move on. if she can't get off her lazy ass and take the time to look on here and see your record of contribution to the community then she doesn't deserve any of your hard-earned cash.

#hookerfail

[Lucky Lady]

I agree if she can't pm or check P4.. then her loss

[Oasis_aquafina]

A smart provider is also gonna be her own detective, rather than sitting on her lazy ass and relying on someone to do her screening for her

[Perfect Playmate]

If you do not wish to provide references I would
say to move on and find a lady who does not require references...

I have a back up screening process for those who do not
want to provide references but it does require more personal
information...

A guy recently contacted me with 13 reviews but did not include references...
The last lady he reviewed was a girl I know. When I contacted her she did not
know him at all, when I asked him about it he went silent and fell off the grid...

Just because some have a review history does not mean they actually seen
that lady... Anyone can submit a review with no verification needed so double
checking the encounter actually happened is important...

Of course she could have just contacted the ladies in your network...

[b14me]

Originally Posted by Perfect Playmate

If you do not wish to provide references I would
say to move on and find a lady who does not require references...

I have a back up screening process for those who do not
want to provide references but it does require more personal
information...

A guy recently contacted me with 13 reviews but did not include references...
The last lady he reviewed was a girl I know. When I contacted her she did not
know him at all, when I asked him about it he went silent and fell off the grid...

Just because some have a review history does not mean they actually seen
that lady... Anyone can submit a review with no verification needed so double
checking the encounter actually happened is important...

Of course she could have just contacted the ladies in your network...

Did they have a P411 account.

[john_deere]

that's why looking at post history and not just reviews is the smart money move.

[Perfect Playmate]

Originally Posted by b14me

Did they have a P411 account.

Honestly I didn't care to get into it after I discovered his
review was false and he went MIA, not like he was responding
in case I did care to get into it lol...

If he would have had a p411 I would have contacted the most recent
lady in his okays and made sure everything was good... Of course I only
would have taken this step if I hadn't discovered what I discovered.

No matter how many okays he has prior to the false review (and no
explanation), I would have declined his meeting. Just a red flag I don't
need to take a chance on...

[b14me]

Obviously P411 is not the site I thought it was with some providers.
This is the first time I've had any problems getting verified.
Live and learn.

[Perfect Playmate]

Originally Posted by b14me

Obviously P411 is not the site I thought it was with some providers.
This is the first time I've had any problems getting verified.
Live and learn.

p411 is a great site... But you should always
verify whats in front of ya... I won't ask you to
send me references on p411 because they are already
there, but I will verify that they are legit...

Many ladies use to give okays just because they get posting
points for doing so (kinda like guys writing fake reviews to get member status)
and they are cheap and don't wanna spend money
on paying for posts so instead they gave false okays...

Over the last year or so p411 has changed it to where the gents have to
message the lady in order to get an okay vs the lady just going to the gents
profile and giving him one...

They didn't change it because the old system was working, they changed it
because too many gents were getting okays just so that girl could go around
having to pay 20 bucks for a post.

[Oh Don Piano]

OP, it seems like you answered your own question. The lady asked for local references and judging by you saying you could have given plenty, you chose not to follow her instructions.

[Z10]

Originally Posted by Perfect Playmate

p411 is a great site... But you should always
verify whats in front of ya... I won't ask you to
send me references on p411 because they are already
there, but I will verify that they are legit...

Many ladies use to give okays just because they get posting
points for doing so (kinda like guys writing fake reviews to get member status)
and they are cheap and don't wanna spend money
on paying for posts so instead they gave false okays...

Over the last year or so p411 has changed it to where the gents have to
message the lady in order to get an okay vs the lady just going to the gents
profile and giving him one...

They didn't change it because the old system was working, they changed it
because too many gents were getting okays just so that girl could go around
having to pay 20 bucks for a post.

Thanks for clearing that up. I mysteriously received an OK on P411 from a lady I sent a pm too but never saw. Now I understand the motivation.

[b14me]

Interesting