One reason why some guys with families are in the hobby:
Movie: Analyze This...
- Dr. Ben Sobel: What happened with your wife last night?
- Boss Paul Vitti: I wasn't with my wife, I was with my girlfriend.
- Dr. Ben Sobel: Are you having marriage problems?
- Boss Paul Vitti: No.
- Dr. Ben Sobel: Then why do you have a girlfriend?
- Boss Paul Vitti: What, are you gonna start moralizing on me?
- Dr. Ben Sobel: No, I'm not, I'm just trying to understand, why do you have a girlfriend?
- Boss Paul Vitti: I do things with her I can't do with my wife.
- Dr. Ben Sobel: Why can't you do them with your wife?
- Boss Paul Vitti: Hey, that's the mouth she kisses my kids goodnight with! What are you, crazy?
I totally agree, last thing i want to see is my future wife kissing my kids after I CIM or have them kiss her after I COF. Its a moral thing