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thundarr28 · 02-12-2010, 11:43 AM

There was this girl I dated several years ago, and for whatever reason it ended before we ever had sex. I was really into her, but I didn't think much about it at the time. Still from time to time I still have really vivid, sexual dreams about her.

She's long since moved on, gotten married and had kids, but the dreams continue every so often. They're so vivid I usually think about them for days after having one. Does this ever happen to anyone else?

whatsupagain · 02-12-2010, 01:34 PM

Usually I don't remember my dreams, but my SO says that I talk, jump, etc. during my sleep. Maybe, she has been sneaking into your room at night and getting busy with you in your sleep and that is why you remember them so vividly.

To answer your question, no I can't remember having a good dream about an ex.

nuglet · 02-12-2010, 01:36 PM

I love it... "can't remember.... a "good" dream....."
Me too, a few nightmares perhaps..

thundarr28 · 02-12-2010, 03:13 PM

I always remember my dreams. The vivid ones I can replay in my head kind of like watching a movie clip. I wish I could find a provider that looked like her so I could finally scratch that itch.

GRIN OF SIN · 02-14-2010, 04:38 AM

I've had sexual dreams about ex's before. I never really saw it as unusual and they always seem to go away once a new relationship starts. As far as chicks I've never slept with, but spend allot of time around... every once in a while I'll have a sexual dream about them. Even though I'd never actually sleep with any of them, it doesn't mean I don't think they're physically attractive.

rekcaSxT · 02-14-2010, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by thundarr28

There was this girl I dated several years ago, and for whatever reason it ended before we ever had sex. I was really into her, but I didn't think much about it at the time. Still from time to time I still have really vivid, sexual dreams about her.

She's long since moved on, gotten married and had kids, but the dreams continue every so often. They're so vivid I usually think about them for days after having one. Does this ever happen to anyone else?

Yes exactly as you described.

The first is an old flame whose story is exactly the same as what you described. She was 4'11'' blonde spinner who was into ballet and music. We connected on an intellectual level and dated for 3 weeks. We began dating right before she had to have major surgery and never hooked up. Well she recovered from her surgery and through a course of events I would rather not described she never slept with me. We kept in touch for a little while, but never rekindled the romance.

I still have dreams about her from time to time.

The other one I always dream about was a college crush. We were friends and she knew how I felt, but she was obsessed with someone else. She was half Japanese with a beautiful Hawaiian first name and Japanese last name. She is a nurse in the military now. I haven't heard from her in a couple years, she deleted her myspace when she went to Iraq, like a lot of people I know in the military.

She is the one whom I have the most vivid sexual dreams about. I always wake up before I seal the deal though. The dreams where I actually complete the sexual act are ones where I can not discern the identity of the female, she is just a fictitious female imagined in my dream.

sixxbach · 02-14-2010, 01:38 PM

i dream of girls i know. usually the nice looking ones i work with. kind of sucks that i work around alot of hotties. though you get use to their looks after awhile especially when they are all PM'sing lol

Sexy Roxanne · 02-14-2010, 07:47 PM

Well, I never had any girlfriends... lol. But I have recently been having dreams about my ex high school sweetheart for some reason and they too are very vivid. Really strange, cause he too is now married with kids and havent seen him in over 11yrs since high school.

thundarr28 · 02-15-2010, 05:08 PM

I always considered her the one that got away. We really connected on both an intellectual and physical level. I always thought we would have really incredible sex if we ever got down to it, but it never happened, and I haven't seen her since. She was half Native American from N.C., and to this day the hottest woman I've ever seen.

GenesisNicole · 02-15-2010, 07:18 PM

I have dreams about past lovers. Mainly my ex husband, as we had the hottest sex I've ever encountered!!!!

Sometimes I'll even wake up in the middle of the night with my hands down in my panties

I think the most vivid dream I ever had, I actually had an orgasm!!!
Nothing like waking up with a pulsating (meow)!

(wink)

~Gen~

Sexy Roxanne · 02-15-2010, 07:29 PM

Damn Genesis, NOW thats a vivid dream! I need to have me one of those, lol!!!

GenesisNicole · 02-15-2010, 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Sexy Roxanne

Damn Genesis, NOW thats a vivid dream! I need to have me one of those, lol!!!

Oh yea baby!!!!

Let's just say, I always have a little more pep in my step after dreams like that!!!!

Damn I miss that man sometimes!.........(daydreamin g...)

~Gen~

EllaInAustin · 02-15-2010, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by thundarr28

Does this ever happen to anyone else?

Yes, coincidentally, just the other night I had a great dream about the guy I lost my virginity with. Amazingly vivid and involved.

A fun but also wistful dream....I've definitely been thinking about it these past few days.

knotaprayr · 02-15-2010, 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by GenesisNicole

Oh yea baby!!!!

Damn I miss that man sometimes!.........(daydreamin g...)

~Gen~

Funny i just found this thread. Had an incredibly detailed dream with my dear departed wife which woke me up this morning. First dream i've had of her in months. Being in her hands was like being a violin played by a master musician. Talk about longing for a lost love........

GenesisNicole · 02-16-2010, 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by knotaprayr

Funny i just found this thread. Had an incredibly detailed dream with my dear departed wife which woke me up this morning. First dream i've had of her in months. Being in her hands was like being a violin played by a master musician. Talk about longing for a lost love........

So I just woke up about 15minutes ago and had another dream. This time, it was a dream of a previous ATF of mine!

I wake up sweaty, hot and of course kitty is slip n slide Wet!

I wonder what it is (in the brain) that makes us have such wickedly vivid dreams????

I'm not complaining, quite the opposite! If there is something that I can do to help have these dreams more often, I would love to know! (hehehehe)

~Gen~

(For knotaprayr:

LOL) (would love to try my hand at playing your fiddle....wink)